"It’s those moments when you’re experiencing each other bodies for the first time, and you’re seeing what really turns the other person on that’s important. It’s the moments when you’re holding hands and you give her that look and she laughs. It’s those moments when you’re in complete silence, but your eyes are speaking what your mouths want to say that matters. Paying attention to the little things and remembering them in detail is what’s important. Nothing is sexier than knowing how to make your girl smile, it’s wanting to share a deep bond with her, something that will increase the intensity of your relationship. Not only mentally, but emotionally as well. I mean we all say cute things, and we all can talk but I believe that our hearts and our eyes speak the intensity and craving we’ve got for our loved ones.
It’s the small simple things, like when you kiss and it feels like it was the first time you guys met. It’s the displaying of affection through things that most people overlook. It’s knowing the softness of her lips, the warmth of her breath, the taste of her tongue, that kiss on her neck that drives her insane, the fingers slowly going down her spine. That occasionally suck on her upper lip, that tingling sensation that runs through her body, all the while letting your hands caress her ever so slightly. It’s the things that are simple, but are the most effective. It’s taking the time out to really know your girl. Experience what it feels like to kiss every inch of her body, every curve, every shape, and every bend. Know her like the back of your hand.
Let your hands give her that sense of warmth, that sense of love that you might not be able to express through words. Caress her body, hug her from behind and kiss her back between her shoulders, grab her by the waist and hug her tight, massage her till she feels stress free, you’ll see that when you take the time to observe and learn everything falls into place. You’ll see that you don’t need to have sex to make her feel good, or to make her feel wanted. You can make her feel special and amazed and loved by simply paying attention to the things that drive her wild you know? You don’t need any special gifts, you don’t need any fancy words, all you need is yourself. Now, is the time to forget about everything and just soak in the complete experience of being one with your loved one."
